So it has been a long time since I have posted anything mostly because I have been going through so much turmoil of late. As I posted before I moved to another server on World of Warcraft to play with my in real life best friend of 20 plus years Billy. Now I have only recently met my other in real life best friend of probably 5 years Derek on World of Warcraft and have met in the real world multiple times.
Well I convinced Derek to move over to this server to play with my wife, Billy, his wife and I in this raiding guild. He didn’t use real money like I did, he spent all his in game gold to buy tokens which I felt was silly to waste that much gold on a faction and server change. So he moved over, and everything was going well till Billy and his wife had a meltdown and got themselves banned from raiding with the guild.
So things started to look bleak but they were able to raid again, and on the first time back Billy’s wife loses her sanity and quits the guild, which resulted in Billy leaving the guild, and at that point Sarah and I moved all our toons back to the Alliance side, except one each, so we could still play with them. I was hoping they would work their issues out and get themselves back into the guild, but they started a new guild.
Once thing I hate is starting a new guild, I have a guild with over 1200 achievement points and 8 tabs, I have a horde guild with 7 tabs and almost 900 achievement points and instead of asking me to move my horde guild to that server to help them with a ton of bonus stuff unlocked they decided to create a new one. So it was at that time I made the decision I was done dealing with the drama.
So I informed Derek that I was moving back to the Alliance and I understood he spent all his gold so I would pay for him to move back because it wouldn’t be fair to leave him there, with my drama filled other best friend. He told me he was happy playing Horde and he might move to a different PvP server because he likes it so much. I was like alright buddy, I completely understand if you got the PvP bug, you got it, and its best to work it out of your system since we normally play on PvE servers.
So moving along in the timeline Derek has removed two toons from my Alliance guild, and when my wife asked him if everything was okay, he told her he wanted to try new things. This, of course, didn’t sound Kosher to me and I point blank asked him if he was upset with us and he said that he was pissed. Because he had to find out on his own that we went back to the Alliance Server 7 days after we left.
Now the part that really aggravates me is the situation is that my wife and I both kept toons on that server to play with him and Billy, and when we decided to be done with the drama I offered to pay for him to move on top of it, so he didn’t find out 7 days later, he found out on day 1. Plus on top of everything else, when he was in that guild, he never did anything with us, he did stuff with other people.
So after our Facebook conversation, I realized that it’s pretty much over between the two of us, and it really annoys me that my other best friend with his drama cost me another friendship. I am still holding out that he will get over himself and come back to my guild and we can renew our friendship.